The Judas way?

In Matthew chapter 26 and 27, you can read stories of Jesus about his betrayal and death.

The life of Jesus does not only teach us to follow his way but to understand also the terrible things happening now and will be in the future. The Bible mentioned so many problems people are facing now, yet we do not understand the Jesus way.

We are in our own position, handling our own life. We have the power to control our own lives. We have the body, soul and spirit to determine our path.

We have our own power to use it the Judas way or the Jesus way? Some of us are in between, maybe we call it sitting on the fence way.

The sitting on the fence way is when we go back and forth, allowing Jesus in our lives and sometimes also Judas. When we are in trouble, we quickly seek Jesus. When we are not in trouble we treat ourselves to the Judas way.

It is Easter and many people are in Jesus way. Jesus is the talk of the day on Easter and palm Sunday. What happened to talking about Jesus daily?

We forget much the pain and suffering he has been through to save our souls from sin. Here I say soul, because our souls are very important to God. A Godly soul is led by the spirit of God. A Judas way soul is led by the evil spirit.

We betray Jesus everyday when we do not speak to and of him. Judas, adisciple of Jesus only betray him once for the love of money. Why speak of him at all when you only do that at times of need?

We should be thankful and grateful for everything we have, for family, for food, for water and shelter, for all our friends. We cannot be enjoying these things without him. It is Jesus who have been with us all this time through these things yet we do not recognise him at all.

When I speak to a friend, I use my mouth, lips and voice. These actions I cannot have without Jesus. My physical being? My mind, my thoughts, my actions are given by God. How do we use it rightly for Jesus?

Am only allowed to use my senses, actions and thoughts for Jesus through my love for other people, helping other people, giving and supporting others. Why do we use what God has given us to hurt, betray, steal and poisoned others. We are doing this many times more than Judas did.

Should we apply the Judas way many times over or should we apply the Jesus way?

That Sad

We cannot change the past, nor can we change what someone did to us. All we can do now is to be ourselves and have love in our hearts praying with our body, mind, soul and spirit for happiness to creep in.

We must always have joy in our hearts no matter the consequences. Always think happy thoughts.

A friend of mine reminded me one day that Faith does not come with sadness. Faith comes with joy in our hearts. If we pray and yet feel sad, nothing successful will come to us.

We must pray and live life with happiness to be successful, be happy for ourselves, share your love and be peaceful to everyone even if you do not receive the same.

“For I know the thoughts I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” Jeremiah 29:11.

If somehow the past kept bothering you then go back to the person and settle whatever it is, much better for you to be happy than be sad.

You are a smart, intelligent, beautiful person, therefore you should not be sad. You are special always in God’s eyes, do not let anyone make you any lower for God did not.

Matthew 10:29-31, “Are not two sparrows sold for a copper coin? And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father’s will. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.”

Always remember, what God sees in you is perfectly powerful. He believes in you and he adores you. Believe in yourself always.

Joshua 1:9, “Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”


People search far and wide for books, verses, collect, hymns, see priests and traveled far to find how to pray to God. They use signs and different dialects on prayers.

It so happened that because people are so muddled up with different prayers, they confuse themselves on what they really need from God.

We know our own needs. Why do we ask for someone to pray for us when that person knows nothing about us? If we have a need in your life, only God can answer us. When we pray we must use simple words and talk to God like talking to our friends.

How to Pray is taught by Jesus to his disciples in Matthew 6:9-13.

Our Father in heaven,
Hallowed be Your name.
Your kingdom come.
Your will be done
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
As we forgive those who trespass against us.
And do not lead us into temptation,
But deliver us from the evil one.
For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen

Chapter 6: 7 also says, ” Do not heap up empty phrases as the gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words.”

When you say this prayer, always say it slowly with a meaningful and loving heart. Apply also the two most important commandments as well.

The two most important commandment is found in Matthew 22:37-39. Also in these verses in verse 40 it says, ” on these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.”

If these two commandments depends entirely on all the Laws and Prophets what more do you want? This is enough for the God.

When we pray for Food or thank God for anything, just say Thank you. We do not have to go to the middle of the universe to search how to say thank you to God? The love in us and love for our neighbours shows we have a heart for people and God knows when we think of them after receiving our blessings.


People are healed in many ways physically and spiritually.  I have seen and experience many different types of healing methods.  

There are so many stories I wanted to share, however, it would be best to tell you more the truth about healing and only whom you shall seek. The healing am talking about here is for when you are physically sick, depressed, lonely, and spiritually sick. 

It will all go away if you believe in yourself and be strong

 It takes time to heal, some people waited years before they heal. Once i sat with an uncle of mine at the clinic and asked him a few questions. He is mentally and Physically ill. The doctors can help him physically, however, on the other hand I can see he is always stressed and always worried what happens if he dies. These are the moments of opportunity for me to give encouragement to him which will bring healing.

Today people use a lot of traditional herbs, homemade medicines, expensive products, books etc there are so many i come across but in the end there is one solution, having faith in God. Jesus did not use any products, he only touch a few people such as the healing of the blind man at Bethsaida. The rest of them he gave word, and most touch his cloak. All of them healed with his presence. 

Your worries, thoughts and feelings should be given unto the Lord 

Jesus did not read a thousand words from the Bible to heal. He spoke with authority and faith. 

Faith will heal you 

Jesus did not give a powerful product to the woman who was bleeding for 12 years. The woman who was bleeding for 12 years have faith. She did not believe in anyone else but God. 

We heal physically and spiritually when we have faith in ourselves, we love ourselves enough to look after ourselves. If any healing we see is outside of what Jesus does then it is not true healing. Do not waste your money or your time going to people who say they can heal. Maybe they can but it would be much better to have a relationship with God and believe he can heal. God can also advise us who to go to for healing. Such as the story from Saul who became blind and he was told by Jesus to go and see Ananias. Ananias is a disciple of Jesus in Damascus who was asked to restore the sight of Saul. The Saul who is now Saint Paul. 

Healing may come in many ways but understanding yourself, healing yourself is the way to respecting yourself, loving yourself and also sharing this healing to others. 


Why is Peace important? What type of Peace comes from God that works through us to settle problems, make us happy, creates peace between conflicting parties, peace among people and peace in families.

We will discuss some verses from the new testament about the type of peace Jesus has.

Peace on Earth can in found in Luke 2:14, the angels sing praises to God saying, Glory to God in the highest heaven, and peace on earth to those with whom he is pleased.

This verse was given when Jesus was born, it is very interesting to find that peace is mentioned already in the beginning when Jesus came into the world. However, if you read further down the books, bringing peace creates further conflict among men because men do not practice the type of peace which Jesus brings. Jesus himself also mentioned in Matthew 10:34, “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword.”

There are different kinds of peace mentioned in the bible by Jesus. Jesus rebuked the wind saying,”Peace, be still” in Mark 4:39. Here he asks nature for peace.

In the book Mark as well, Jesus healed a girl and says, “go in peace, and be healed of your disease.”

Another, he said, “have salt in yourselves, and be at peace with one another”.

In John 14:27, Jesus says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. “

Matthew 10: 12-13, “As you enter the house, greet it. And if the house is worthy, let your peace come upon it, but if it is not worthy, let your peace return to you.”

With the above verses peace can be inserted not only in conflicts but also nature, sickness, ourselves, visiting people, peace in faith, spiritual peace, and spiritual love.

On earth we can resolve a conflict between two parties to have peace, at last! However, peace does not really exist if in one’s heart is not truly with God.

Peace should not only be practiced among men but also among other things. For example, a company who does deforestation causes soil erosion, water pollution etc which does not bring peace to those who live close by. It may give peace when there is exchange of money or solutions of getting water for the community but the environment itself also does not have peace. The peace that comes from God is peace in nature and the future. This is the kind of peace that happens now and continues happening for the future without any touch of selfishness, pride, money, conflict etc

The peace that comes from sickness is peace of healing, you heal yourself through peace given by God. You feel healthy, refresh, and without fault. Some of us may feel downhearted, or rejected by loved ones, these does not bring us peace, therefore, we only find such peace in God to heal ourselves from our surroundings.

When the Lord sent out his apostles they bring with them peace, we ourselves must accept the peace given to us by others. If our peace does not accept others, it is not peace at all. How can we accept peace from others when we have our own troubled heart? Peace is connected between each heart and this is the type of peace we should share.

We have faith for our goals to be a success and this is recurring in our mind bringing peace and comfort. I have faith in this, I have faith in that, it shows the peace we have in what we want or planned for.

The spiritual peace we have from God is so special we feel we are in a different state, some experience it during meditation or when helping other people. It is that peace that comforts our mind, telling us that everything has worked out through God and handled by God. The peace which brings us total comfort.

Spiritual love, the peace in love which shows out through our work, our effort, our family, our output, our relationship with other people.

Whenever someone offend us, we must practice love and peace for them.


Many things happen in this world. We live in our personal world, hence, I want to talk about Afterlife.  Our spirit can be good or bad, this is the spirit we are born with. Our physical body/nature is our human nature and we use our senses daily.

For now, ignore the soul, and concentrate on your spirit and your body. We are born with it, we were innocent and humble, very delicate and bright, very simple and angelic.

The moment we start to grow from being a child to adult, we start to create a distance between our spirit and the physical body. Our views are changed from spiritual into physical human nature. We learn more of the physical world, we use our senses to learn more about the life on earth.

When we were children, our spirit is very pure, but it changes into the type of spirit we physically wanted as we grow up. It may be a good or bad spirit.

Our parents are there for us to teach us to be kind and loving, knowing the good and the bad. These teachings help us to lessen the gap between the spirit and our physical body. It teaches us spiritually to be a good person even though physically we are going through situations such as being bullied, been hurt, been unsuccessful and so on.

When we reach an older age, we start to make our own decisions without our parents. We get released from the teachings of our parents and merge into the physical world with others.

The moment we get released is an important era in our lives where we ourselves determine our afterlife. We make decisions, choices, plans, goals etc. on what we want to become or achieve. During this time we should not to forget our own spirit.

The reason our spirit is more important than the physical body/nature is because, the spirit is linked to God and it is only the route to afterlife. The afterlife is determined by what we do physically now. We must train our spirit to merge with the Holy Spirit that God has planned for us while we are alive now.

We created a distance from God even more when we start to follow the ways of the world.

We have the spirit and the body. When we die, we only have the spirit, and the spirit is eternity. That is why it is important to train and nurture the spirit and not our physical nature. The physical nature disappears when we die but the spirit continues on and gets judged by God. How we train our spirit to become like God’s likeness determines our path in afterlife.

Our path is a plan given by God.  We have to accept God’s Holy Spirit to teach our spirit to succeed in the plans chosen for us.

Let us talk about balance, the balance of our spirit and Physical nature. Lets’ say, am a clever, knowledgeable student, and later become one of the directors of a very large wealthiest firm. Physically am rich and wealthy.

I know my business and I know a lot of rich people. The problem here is, I have no connection with my spirit and God. My spirit is not Holy because I have no God in me.  I have no God in my plans, I have no wisdom from above but only earthly wisdom.

When I die, all my wealth goes to someone else. Where does my spirit go? It did not go to God because while am alive, I do not know God. I am only left with the spirit that hover the world with other lost spirits.

Our spirit becomes Holy and it follows the ways of Christ when we believe in God and have a connection with God. At that moment of connection, a surge of Holy spirit’s gifts flows into our spirit making it one with God. We do not have knowledge of the world but also knowledge of the spiritual world. We become both spiritual and physically angelic being in God’s eyes.

When we have the Holy Spirit, it teaches us physically to do things in the physical world according to God’s plan. A lot of us these days do not train our spirit or fill the gap between the spirit and physical nature. The physical nature must be aligned to our Spirit. Both must be in perfect harmony in afterlife living with God.

Insert into our life timeline the following; prayers, helping people, donations, support, read the word of God, learn to understand God and love God to push up our spirit to match our physical nature of knowledge. As time goes by, our spirit will become holy and the moment it reaches our physical nature at the top, both are one with God.

For example, we have a relationship, we live together, therefore, we both merge our plans, work together, have children together and build a house together. The togetherness brought us years of living until aged. We put trust, we put energy, we both went through difficulties, we both are successful. Even though problems exist we both work hard to make it work. Same with the Spirit and Physical nature, both must be together even though it is hard to make the afterlife glorious.

To elaborate more, read the following verse;

James 3:13-18, “But if you have bitter jealousy, and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth. This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.

The verse above simply tells us that when we use physical nature of our own accord and ambition, we have nothing else but all these rubbish in our hearts. Such do not come from the Holy Spirit but of the world.

When we have the Holy Spirit with us, we have everything, we have God and everything we ask for. The more we have the Holy Spirit, what we do physically is acceptable to our God and the hearts of all mankind.

Glass Cup

We have a dirty cup of glass.

We clean the inside for cleanliness to reflect on the outside.

Same with personal goals and changes. We change by cleaning the inside of our cup for it to reflect on the outside. Whatever happens it is our cup of glass not someone else’s. We have our own right to do whatever pleases our life.

When we have an own way of motivating ourselves to succeed, nothing should be able to hinder it. Our love for it, our determination for it, our intelligence and being inspired by others should be the focus to push us forward in making our motivation of that plan come true.

Our dirty cup may contain jealousy, relationship issues, people bothering us, failures, stress, making the wrong decisions, sadness etc, all of these dirt needs to be thrown away. Be us, be awesome, be clean, start anew, select only a few and always smile.

We should know if someone tries to put their heaviness on us, or start making decisions with us included. Do not include ourself in decisions we cannot fit in.

We all have our own plans, our own future, and our own path before and after we die.

There is no set rules, we learn the rules when we are brought up, and we apply the rules we take in. Yes, other people have their own conditions, but that person who loves us the most is the only one who can accept our conditions.

When we began cleaning our cup, we are also shaping it into our most incredible us.

Our awesomeness, our humble spirit, our passion, our success, our pride, our relationships, our plans, our love, and our kind heart comes only from ourselves.

Past and Present

“Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.” Mother Teresa
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We have come through a lot of experiences in our lives, some of these experiences are good and some are not. The past changes us so much that we are always cautious sometimes with certain things in life. We tend to forger the present beauty and the present love surrounding us now because we always think about our past.

We hold on to our past so much and forget our own happiness now. When we should be asking God to forgive us and move on with our present life bringing God’s grace with us for a better future.

“The past is always tense, the future perfect.” Zadie Smith 

Everything we do depends on our own decisions. We can choose to hold on to our past or to let it go and move forward. When we hold on to our past we let the past eat our lives and hold us back to the many blessings awaiting us ahead.

We forget about God and we did not receive Christ Jesus, he is the only one who can help us through our past and move on to a glorious everlasting life.

We must not allow the past to win over us.

We have to surround ourselves with meaningful moments. Surround us with people who will support us and love us for who we are and not just using us for their own benefits.

We must always let the Lord Jesus Christ carry our burden.

“The past was always there, lived inside of you, and it helped to make you who you were. But it had to be placed in perspective. The past could not dominate the future.” Barbara Taylor Bradford, Unexpected Blessings.

Why do we want to meet people, share love, find a relationship, start a business, go travel, eat healthy and still carry on our past.

We have to clear our mind with goodness and peace. We have to forget the past and focus on the future bringing ourselves closer to GOD even more.

The more closer we are to God, the more closer we understand ourselves and see our plans fall into place.

God knows everything about us, allowing him to dwell in our lives will bring us much more happiness.

Pray always and have love, be kind and gentle for such is also in Heaven.

What do you say

The most inspirational women in history, by Marie Claire.


‘I will not be triumphed over.’


Rosa Parks

‘I would like to be remembered as a person who wanted to be free… so other people would be also free.’


Mary Wollstonecraft

‘If women be educated for dependence; that is, to act according to the will of another fallible being, and submit, right or wrong, to power, where are we to stop?’


Nora Ephron

‘I try to write parts for women that are as complicated and interesting as women actually are.’


Emmeline Pankhurst

‘Trust in God – she will provide.’


Josephine Baker

‘I wasn’t really naked. I simply didn’t have any clothes on.’


Malala Yousafzai

‘I don’t want to be remembered as the girl who was shot. I want to be remembered as the girl who stood up.’


Amelia Earhart

‘Women must try to do things as men have tried. When they fail, their failure must be but a challenge to others.’


Valentina Tereshkova

‘If women can be railroad workers in Russia, why can’t they fly in space?’


Frida Kahlo

‘Feet, what do I need you for when I have wings to fly?


Florence Nightingale

‘The very first requirement in a hospital is that it should do the sick no harm.


Elizabeth Taylor

‘I’ve been through it all, baby, I’m mother courage.’


Coco Chanel

‘The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.’

Marie Curie

‘Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.’


Elizabeth I

I know I have the body of a weak and feeble woman, but I have the heart and stomach of a king, and of a king of England too.’


Edith Cavell

‘I realise that patriotism is not enough. I must have no hatred or bitterness towards anyone.’


What do you say? Add your name.

Our Spiritual Value


Your Net worth is calculating your assets and liabilities to know the status of your financial situation or knowing how much you are financially worth but it will be lovely also to know more our Spiritual worth.

What do you practice spiritually to increase your spiritual value for the future?

We have an opportunity so vast to growing ourselves both physically and spiritually, gift that is openly given to us to use, how do we use it?

Some of us may have 10% spiritual and 90% physical connection in our lives or we have 100% physical connection.

A good example of spiritual and physical connection is with King Solomon, he has enormous wealth and a strong spiritual relationship with God. If life can be so simple to having that connection with God we all will be wealthy and holy. Unfortunately most of us do not have that balance.

With so much temptations and disturbances in this world, it is difficult to increase our spiritual holiness. We may go places and wonder how others like monks or dedicated priests seem to find it easy when we are not. We are all human beings and it takes time and dedication.

Spiritual growth or value is nothing you can see yet it is within you to make that value by seeking advises, gain knowledge, and expand in relationship with God.

How do we increase our spiritual value?

2 Chronicles 1:7 – In that night God appeared to Solomon, and said to him, “Ask what I shall give you.”

Solomon did not ask for riches or to be wealthy, he asks for Wisdom and Knowledge. In addition God gave him wealth.

We should study ourselves and increase our spiritual connection with God, everything else will come later as God sees fit for us. He looks at our heart and gives accordingly to what we deserve.

Our spiritual value increases through God when we pray, we work hard and we research/study hard. These are the same ways the apostles/missionaries abide to when spreading the good news. Yes they are poorly provided for but their work always comes with benefit when needed be. God gives to them accordingly as planned.

We have so much yet we complain. We must not live complaining to him. We have so much love, peace, grace and thoughts to give and use. We can use it to draw closer to him.

I leave you with the verses below: 

John 6:63 – It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh profits nothing; the words that I have spoken to you are spirit and are life.

Psalm 36:9 – For with You is the fountain of life; In Your light we see light.