You have a dirty cup of glass.
You clean the inside for cleanliness to reflect on the outside.
Same with personal goals and changes. You change by cleaning the inside of your cup for it to reflect on the outside. Whatever happens it is your cup of glass not someone else’s. You have your own right to do whatever pleases your life.
When you have your own motivation to succeed, nothing should be able to hinder it. Your love for it, your determination for it, your intelligence and being inspired by others should be the focus to push you forward in making your motivation of that plan come true.
Your dirty cup may contain jealousy, relationship issues, people bothering you, failures, stress, making the wrong decisions, sadness etc, all of these dirt needs to be thrown away. Be you, be awesome, be clean, start anew, select only a few and always smile.
You should know if someone tries to put heaviness on you, or start making decisions with you included. Do not include yourself in decisions you cannot fit in.
We all have our own plans, our own future, and our own path before and after we die.
There is no set rules, we learn the rules when we are brought up, and we apply the rules we take in. Yes, other people have their own conditions, but that person who loves you the most is the only one who can accept your conditions.
When you began cleaning your cup, you are also shaping it into your most incredible you.
Your awesomeness, your humble spirit, your passion, your success, your pride, your relationships, your plans, your love, and your kind heart comes only from you.