Life as it is

One of my followers wants me to write about life and because it is a very broad topic I decided to write about moving on and starting a new chapter in life. 

I do not know your problems, but what I do know is that we all go through struggles and hardships in life.

When we think back, we usually say we wasted our years doing something we do not love. We may say, the person who is living with us is dragging us along when we should be focusing on ourselves and our purpose. 

We do not realize that the person we live with is relying on us most of the time, maybe because that person expects for us to provide love. 

We do not realize our families are forcing us to do something we do not love or we are not independent enough to make such decisions and we end up doing someone else’s purpose in life.

Starting a new chapter in life is very difficult, here are some tips to moving on:

1. cut off all ties of those who always rely on you to do work for them 

2. if you have a relationship be true to yourself and your partner

3. get rid of unnecessary issues that you do not need to get involved in

4. find your purpose, put God first and seek for answers why you are here 

5. work hard and invest in yourself, focus on your career goals, make yourself worthy, leap high and aim towards success 

6. Open up to new opportunities and try 

7. Avoid trying to satisfy everyone 

8. push forward with your own honesty and what comes to heart, be yourself 

9. Do not run away from people but tell them straight up you are not interested 

10. Tell people to shove up their ass what negative comments come your way

We are not selfish, we are trying to be who we are. Do not listen to what people say about us, a frog does not stay on a lily pad or bask in the sun forever, it leaps or pokes out its tongue for food. We do not have to poke out your tongue, we must do things on our own and selecting which one is best for us.